Hello crash and welcome to the family
Binoculars are a great way in starting out with astronomy and learning the night sky. I own a pair of 7x50 binoculars that I bought used for $15 at the local markets and it serves its purpose extremely well. I do notice a bit of false colour (namely blue-violet) surrounding the moon and the brightest stars though as these binos are not optically perfect. But they are so wonderful to whip out at a moments notice and just scan the skies without the trouble of setting up a mammoth scope. However, even with these smaller sized binoculars, I find that my arms get tired of holding up the binos for too long so that is something else to think about when you look at higher magnification binos. A tripod would be a must, or at least something to lean on would help steady the binos. It can get really shaky at times.
From reading this whole thread, I'm sure you've noticed that astronomy is a very expensive hobby. You don't always need the most expensive equipment in order to enjoy the night sky, just buy what you need and start enjoying the stars as soon as you can.
With regards to the red LED/torch, I just wrap a bit of red cellophane over my dad's mag light or my small torch and tie a rubber band around it and voila! Instant red light torch with minimum cost.
Also, something to think about when you do eventually purchase your scope: I own an astronomik UHC filter which I bought because I live in a very light polluted area. I find that I haven't really been using it very much. But I will have to observe with it a bit more and observe more objects with it to see the benefits of it.
Oh and yes the planisphere is what comes free with the AS&T subscription from what I remember.
Good luck with your purchase mate and clear skies to you! I hope you can start enjoying the night sky soon