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Old 07-08-2009, 11:41 AM
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Astronomy and Autism

My son has Autism and it is difficult to get him to respond to nearly anything that he hasn't already had an interest in, in the past. He likes a few things and is obsessive about them, usually babbling on about his interest and playing by himself. One day I tried to get him to look through my 8" Newtonian but he refused with a 'panic tone' in his voice. Something about Aliens seeing us. Apparently he thought 'if we could see them then obviously they could see us'. Anyway it took quite some time for me and my daughter to convince him that they (Aliens) could not see us and that he should have a look though the Scope.
One night he took me up, although a little tentative, he saw Jupiter and the four main moons. It was a quick look and he rushed inside and hid under the bed with his toy 'ray-gun' for protection. A few weeks later he approached me and pointed quietly at the Scope. I set everything up in the garden with a foot stool up so he could look with relative ease at Saturn. He stood there observing quietly for a short time and then started to talk excitedly. His words were not totally clear but rushed and compreseed a little. I was use to this and so I could understand him partially guessing at times. He was so excited his hands flapped away (a trait of Autism). Months and months later he still tells his school friends and teachers about seeing (and visiting) Saturn and Jupiter. Which too me is fantastic as he basically keeps to himself at school. Now he likes to look at the stars and the moon with his 10 x 25 Bino's and sometimes my 10 x 50's although he finds them a little heavy.
Astronomy has brought him out of his shell a fair bit and for this I am happy and feel less guilty about spending the money on myself. I took up astronomy because beside having an interest, it gave me something to do. He need a fair bit of attention and as a single parent of two, I find it a bit "challenging". His antics hinder me in many ways and he will not accept and babysitter. (It's non stop but I love both kids dearly). Only when he is asleep can I do something for myself. ( I can't even hang the washing out without him being with me to prevent total panic) Now however since he has experienced my astronomy interest, I can go outside and observe without too much fuss as long as he can see me though the window or comes out with me. I can accassionally promt him to take another look but usually he happily uses his Bino's. Unfortunately when he is finished so am I, which means I have to packup and take it inside. Astronomy has had a grand positive effect on my son. If he ever needs less 'absolute attention' and I can get a part time job I will buy him his own Scope.
If you know anyone with an Autistic child I would sincerely suggest you offer their parents a chance for the child to veiw the sky, even just the moon. It could be theriputic and I promise it will bring a smile to your face too. Steven A
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Old 07-08-2009, 11:51 AM
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A great story. I am happy that Astronomy as helped with your son. Goes to show that Astronomy is not only a fantastic hobby but also as great therapeutic properties for all people.

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Old 07-08-2009, 11:58 AM
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Thankyou Steven for your enlightening story
I hope as time goes by that life gets a little bit easier for you and your little familyand you are able to enjoy your time under the night sky with your son
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Old 07-08-2009, 12:04 PM
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A wonderful story to share with us Steven.
I admire your fortitude immensely. It's hard yakka raising kids at the best of times, I can't imagine how much harder it is raising a child with special needs.
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Old 07-08-2009, 12:11 PM
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That is a great story, thanks for sharing it. I'm glad something like astronomy can bring a little bit more stability into your life and your home and put a smile on your son's face! You're a trooper, Steven.
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Old 07-08-2009, 12:21 PM
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Thanks for sharing such a great story, Steven. It sounds like you are a great dad, too.

I sometimes wonder if there is something a bit akin to Aspergers Syndrome in the obsession many of us have with this hobby....when I start reciting NGC numbers to my family, they look at me like I am off in my own little world!!
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Old 07-08-2009, 02:08 PM
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Steven,

A wonderful story of both inspiration and dedication. Astronomy could well develop into a lifetime interest for your son and become one of a number of communication lifelines for him.

All the best, Rob
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Old 07-08-2009, 09:18 PM
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I think many people would be surprised at how pervasive autisim is in astronomy and related technical type interest areas. I am diagnosed with Aspergers and most people who hang around with me figure it out after time. My obsessions are astronomy (obviously) and old land rovers. Either keeps me happy. I am glad you have found this connection with you son and i am sure it will only increase your bond with him. Good on you for trying and being so supportive.
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Old 07-08-2009, 09:43 PM
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Thank you for sharing this wonderful milestone of your son's with us.

I had a couple of tears by the time I finished reading. Every child is its own challenge. Some challenging us a little more. We love them none the less, .

Sound's like you are doing a top job as a dad. You are an inspiration, mate, .

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Old 10-08-2009, 01:54 PM
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Hi Steven,

That is an inspirational account mate. Congratulations and thank you so much for taking the time to post it -- really stirred me up.



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Old 10-08-2009, 01:58 PM
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fantastic Story Steven, I hope things continue to develop for the better.
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Old 10-08-2009, 03:11 PM
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Hi Steven,
Just read your wonderful story. Times can be very challenging of that I have no doubt. Sharing your interest in Astronomy with him and where it has now taken you both is inspirational indeed. Thank you for sharing this most personal experience. Your son has a wonderful dedicated father, good on you.
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Old 10-08-2009, 03:29 PM
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I have a son with Aspergers, it can be difficult do deal with. I found that my sons obsession with mechanical things was a blessing.
My wife & I would wonder what would become of him in adulthood however he is now well into his 20's and has a very good job as a BMW specialist ! He can rattle off part numbers like no tomorrow.
So therefore Aspergers was of benifit to my son in the end.
I am very proud of him.
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Old 11-08-2009, 12:05 AM
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Hi Steven,

Thanks for telling your story. My 22 year old son has Autism. You have inspired me to have another go in trying to involve my son in astronomy. Sadly after a while we tend to fall into a rut and just settle for coasting along, keeping the piece. As you said it is very difficult to get him interested in something new. It’s very difficult for him to understand the concept involved in something like this, or most things really.
Don’t know how old your son is (the younger the better), but as you are able to share and interact with him in something together you are surely helping his development for the future.

Stay out of the ruts, I'm sure you will.
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Old 11-08-2009, 06:07 AM
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i take my hat off to you, my wife works for Yooralla, and deals with kids with just such needs, so i know just what a task you have at hand. i hope he takes an interest even if its only at his level and its something you can share, and at the same time enjoy.

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