Don't be too hard on yourself Mark. It takes me an hour just to get the RGB colour balance looking half decent sometimes
Flats are really important - if you figure it out you can give me lessons! I've got LRGB Helix data taken from dark skies but I'm still fiddling around trying to get decent flats to match the data 2 months after the event....
Its all part of the fun we signed up for going CCD with a filterwheel though! There's definitely great resolution and colour in that data though.