Im not an expert on this, but I think thats the wrong way round. Hook the modem/router to the phone line in your house, so you have a wirelesss network and your lap top can then be wireless anywhere in the house, then get a USB wireless adaptor (to match the modem/router,just a little cheap dongle thing that plugs into the OBs PC USB port) so it too can join the wireless network. This is then a standard wireless network set up which the modem/adaptor software and windows has instructions for setting up.
This is the way I have it, and it works because its standard.
To get access, I use Radmin, which allows total control of the remote PC, as if the laptop was actually the remote PC, as Steve says. Remote desktop is free and already in windows though, I havent used it.
Oh, and Radmin works over the internet, so dont even have to be at home to contol the scope