Surprise pressies help, but basically we just cheer each other on in our chosen pursuits.
Like I just cleaned out, fitted out and rearranged her clayplay room (The garage,

she's into clay sculpture and ceramics) with shelves for xmas, and she bought me the Meade carry bag for my LX200.
I'm getting a bit worried though. I think she's eyeing of my playroom to put her kiln when she buys one.