Hi Rob,
Dont throw it away
I can get focus in under 30 seconds using CCDSoft, RoboFocus and FocusMax.
Firstly do you at least have the software on this page.
http://www.homedome.com/robofoc1.htm#Autmated Focusing Software
It normally comes with robofocus. This can be used to independantly control the motor without maxim or ccdsoft.
If you dont have it you may have to email Robofocus as it comes with each unit.
Once you have it then download FocusMax, which is free.
Pressing the red buttons on the unit should at least work as long as the serial cable is connected to the motor, does this work, does the red light come on, on the hand control when you power it up?
Cheers
Paul