I would like help in finding a way of the photo's I send as attachments not being part of the main screen, and only being accessed as an attachment by clicking on the icon in the attachment bar(if that makes sense)

I am using Outlook Express

I have been sending messages to a friend with images, and they have not been received, but if i send a simple text message they are.
The only thing I can think of is the Spam Filter does not like the images included in the message

Ron