Hi Shihan!

to IceInSpace, and congrats for getting back into astronomy. It's a great hobby.
If astrophotography is not an interest anymore, then a large aperture reflector is definitely your best bet. An 8" or 10" dob is perfect. They are quite portable even though they're not particularly small. You can stick them on a trolley for wheeling in and out of the house or put some handles on it for shuffling it around the yard. That size will also fit in almost any car you can try and put it in.
The larger aperture of the 8" or 10" (as opposed to the 4.5" or 6") will show you many many more faint objects in the sky, and will actually help with your light polluted backyard. And when you actually do decide to travel with it (to star parties or local observing nights) at darker skies, you'll really enjoy the larger aperture.
For finding things with the dob, you can use star charts and planispheres, manual or digital setting circles. These can all be added on later, but you'll need something to show you what to point at.
Is tracking or goto really important for you? For simple deep space observing which is mostly done at moderate power, tracking isn't really an issue - especially if you're not planning to do photography with it. For that reason, a dob base is perfect. I'm not a huge fan of newt's on EQ mounts for visual observing. The eyepiece gets in all sorts of weird positions and you need to rotate the tube in the rings to get it back to a comfortable position.
For simple visual observing, you can't go past a dob base. If you want GOTO, then an EQ mount is good, but DSC's like Argo Navis do just as good a (actually, a better) job of helping you find the objects. The only difference is, you push the scope to point at it, rather than the mount pointing at it for you.
btw what's your budget?
I'd also recommend getting to a local astronomy club or viewing night and have a look at, and through, some of the different types of scopes. Where abouts in Sydney are you?
There's going to be a viewing night on the Central Coast tomorrow night (we have them monthly) which is significantly darker than Sydney and a lot of fun with friendly people. You're welcome to come along.
Keep asking questions!
btw, your username "Shihan" - is that a karate reference?