i figured you were...
do you know any of the constellations? best to get yourself a printed skychart or planisphere and learn where the stars and constellations are i think. just sit down whereever you do your observing without your telescope and learn the sky a bit. once you have done that and you know where to find specific stars use a skychart to hop from star to star to find other objects. thats how i did it. it take patience but if you persist it pays off
to use a planisphere hold it over your head and align the stars on it to teh stars in the sky
hope this helps.
if you dont get it the first time then dont give up just keep trying... also if you can get to your local astro clubs observing night theres nothing quite like an expert by your side helping out