Don, what you say is true, and some like them and some find them intrusive to their seeing, so I suppose that is a good thing, as it would be boring if we were all the same.
I personally like the cross hairs in my finder as with the illuminated finder it can be adjusted as fine or as coarse as one likes.
The hairs a pretty useful if one needs accurate positioning of the main scope, but i do understand your point, so if you like it that way, stick with it I reckon.
Leon