im gonna be honest and just post this (although I feel like an absolute idiot)
when i loaded up stellarium, i found saturn walked outside and being that time of morning not many stars were visable but i looked in the "very rough" direction of where stellarium was showing and saw a really bright light and said "well, there she is - you couldn't miss it!"
anyways, i just now had a look at stellarium again and going back to 4:40am ish and i think i was looking at ... umm ... venus