Thanks very much for all your help, I did a little reading today and try to remember Bert's words as I feel I losing a grasp on what I read.
I have read that they travel at C and it has been determined they have a mass .. news I read some months ago that I thought rather exciting.
I have my gravity rain ideas

(gravity is a pushing force generated by particle pressure and that attraction is a human myth) and such a particle is what I need to make the idea work. So I figured if it was related to the electro magnetic spectrum I would have TOE almost complete

. Given that there are many of them they seem like a great candidate for what I propose... notice I refer to it as an idea not a theory but that is about the limit of my science understanding

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If not explaining gravity could the pressure from neutrinos provide an explanation for dark energy which I think has been observed to be a pushing force? It is my belief if attraction was taken out of the picture and we worked only with a pushing force new doors could be opened.
I know they look for them in labs far underground in tanks with cleaning fluid and I had the impression they were few and far between ..however that seems not to be the case, I also thought they had a very short life expectancy but find that is not so.. so space full of these going everywhere at C would do the trick if the numbers stacked up.
So if I could find a connection between them and the electro magnetic spectrum the link between the forces could be established..maybe.
Anyways just a thought I will read everything in the links posted so I can learn what I don’t know.
The proposition of observing things in two places at once is indeed curious I will think about why that could be so ... it seems so curious.
I think the uncertainty principle gets our thought to an exception rather than the rule frame of mind as in the cow cartoon, what is probably really relevant is what are they doing most of the time, that can only come from a guess as the observations seem to demonstrate the situation as the car passes the cows... that sums up all I think I know about cows no bull

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So the Sun radiates photons which make up the electro magnetic spectrum but neutrinos are separate

. If a base ball shows the same wave relationship exists do you think that could suggest that there could be more than a photon involved in the make up of the electromagnetic spectrum.. I only seek an opinion as to possibility given these things are tricky and harder to see than cows? Any thoughts?
Another cartoon could help explain things at my level

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Thanks again
alex