I think the Astronomy tools action only works on the whole image - is that correct? If so it will definitely have limitations. If you can you really need to separate the stars and the nebulosity first using either Starnet++ (free) or RC Astro Star Exterminator (paid). If you have a look at the RC Astro site you can download a Photoshop action which (once you have purchased the Star Exterminator plug-in) will produce 'stars' and 'starless' layers in Photoshop at the 'press of a button'....
Once you have a 'stars only' layer then there are a multitude of ways of reducing their intensity but perhaps the simplest is just to move the middle slider around in the Levels dialog. Adjust to taste. Cheap and cheerful
Another thing which is relatively straightforward, once you have the hang of separating stars and starless images, is to produce two different versions of your image, one with a minimal stretch and the other with your normal stretch. If you extract the star layer from the minimal stretch and combine it with the starless layer from the normal stretch this has the effect of reducing the star influence on the combined image.
There are plenty of other more complex recipes out there for this (and also for recombining the star and starless layers effectively) so it is really just a matter of finding something that best suits your workflow....
cheers, Jon