I'll post this in as I've had my scope exactly a month today so my newby experiences may be relevant to you, and I seem to have spent 5 or 6 days collimating (mostly in the first 10 days) so I've had some practice at getting it right and wrong.
I have exactly the same kind of views that you do ..... 4 nice spikes on stars under good seeing, but only with 40-100 x magnification, my f5 10" dob can't seem to do stars at higher mag without seeing that small fizzing "blob" instead of a crisp pin point light source.
I had used the "traditional" 35mm film cannister type home made collimation tube, about 3 different versions actually, and in the end I figured I was still a part of the problem by not getting it collimated correctly. I shelled out $69 for the
combination sighting tube / Cheshire tube at Bintel .... my opinion is GET ONE! If you have any doubts at all about your collimation these things are GREAT, and as I proved to myself this weekend. If you've transported the scope and still do have the collimation right you can confirm it's accuracy in bare seconds and feel confident that it's ok, if it needs adjusting you can see that clearly and immediately too.
We actually used my sighting tool on the scope of another member of these forums who is far more experienced than I am, and it showed straight away we had one small, but clearly visible, adjustment to make. We had his scope and mine collimated sweet in no time!