Another way of saying it....
The meridian goes straight over your head from directly North to directly South.
The equator runs more or lesswhere the planets and moon go across the sky, at 0 declination, in line wth Rigel (one of the brightest stars in the constellation of Orion). The equator runs East to West.
If it's any conselation, drift alignment does take practice. It took me a year or so of casual amateur astronomy to get a full grip on what RA and DEC were, where the Meridian and Equator were, and how to get a drift alignment successfully under way. Of course I'm sure I could've spent more nights working on it and got the hang of it a lot quicker with more dedcation, but you can't spend every night doing the boring stuff