Always said the next family car was either going to be a VW Passat wagon (we currently have a Passat sedan), Nissan Murano or Subaru Forester.
The Passat is a 2003 model, currently got 300,000 on the clock, and needed the CV's and rod arms done at 250,000, and the accessory belt pooped itself at 270,000. Not a single niggle or problem since. Oil change.... errr.... around 10,000 km at the moment. Doesn't use a DROP of oil (check it weekly, haven't added ANY since the accessory belt change (just in case - I did have to drive it about 0.5km without it!)
Love my VW's.... but could be twist-armed into a Murano... depending on the financial front. Time will tell. We have had the Passat a good while now, so it may be time (or let me keep the Passat for myself and drive it into the ground dear wife

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I like the Subies, but have heard (and seen) wheel bearing issues - mainly the rear ones. Any truth?