Hmm, I'm in the 'zone' albeit near the wrong end of it

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I agree, this is a niche hobby and requires a certain sort of commitment and patience.
My wife is an oddity in that she is very interested and knowledgeable about perfomance cars. Hence our last weeks excursion to the track so she could get some driving time at high speed. Motorsport is another hobby\sport that lacks in female participation, ignoring the race bimbos that sponsors throw in. (And I'm not trying to be derogatory about the girls but about the whole base 'sex sells' concept that is abused and exploited by the sponsors).
But that is the way of the world, we each have our own somewhat hormonal drives that predicate our interests and preferences. We should though, respect and value those of the other gender that share those same interests as it always brings another viewpoint to the school of thought. This applies to other cultures and races etc etc too of course.
As my wife says we should celebrate our difference AND our similarities.