For anyone to claim that there wasn't life beyond Earth, they would be utilizing a logical fallacy (an argument to ignorance). A lack of evidence never disproves anything. It only begs for evidence to prove the existence.
There are plenty of stars in the galaxy and plenty of galaxies in the universe (something like 10-50 billion stars in the average galaxy, and billions of galaxies), but not all stars are alike.
Many stars are far too young. Any planets there would still be suffering from the heavy meteor showers of formation. The system needs to be something like 2-3 billion years old. But also the system needs to be chemically rich. The very oldest systems are only hydrogen and helium with the barest whisper of other elements, possibly picked up from the interstellar medium.
The link below is for a short article on ancient, rich stars, ripe for habitable planets. It includes a list of nearby stars that fit this "garden spot" category.
Ancient Rich Star Systems