When I first got my NEQ6, I followed the instructions from the manual and that had the two tripod feet on the same side as the counterweight (CW) bar. The dowel was already in position. I must have shown a pic of this and I was informed by a number of people to put the single tripod leg under the CW bar. Of course, I ignored that advice as I am a know it all lawyer. I had three bits of paint on a slab to put my tripod feet as I didn't leave it out especially in hot weather.
The EQ8-R turned up and it had the opposite setting to my NEQ6. I couldn't put the feet on the paint spots and I couldn't do anything about it as there is no option about moving the dowel. I was forced to rotate the mount 180 degrees and there wasn't any slab where one of the feet was supposed to go. If I moved the tripod a foot to the west, I would not have a good polar alignment position. So one of my feet is sitting on a paver over some paving sand. It does the job until I get my slab.
So the moral of this story is to not read the directions.
My first meridian flip was the only time I have ever seen it. It was very close due to my filter-wheel. I think there was about 40 mm spare.
Is your signature accurate? Do you not use PixInsight? It is an amazing bit of software and worth every cent.