Hi Gav.
Apparent magnitude measures how bright an object looks from earth and is a function of its absolute magnitude and distance. ie the further away the dimmer yet the bigger/heavier the star the brighter.
Absolute magnitude measures an object's intrinsic brightness and i defined as the apparent magnitude an obect would have if viewed from a distance of 10 parsecs (32.6 light years)
As to working out what mag you can see from your site; you may come across the phrase mag 5 skies or mag 3.5 skies. The phrase is baically telling someone the dimmest stars they can see at any partiular time, with their naked eyes. So if you look at your maps and then at the sky and the faintest star you can see is mag 4 then your sky is a mag 4. Be aware though that the mag value of the sky can change for different parts of the sky. You may have only mag 2 skies towards a serious light pollution source but mag 4.5 at the opposite horizon if there is less LP there. And usually the zenith is different again. It depends on your local viewing conditions, how large the moon is at that time and also the transparency of the sky (how clean and easy to see through is it. Is there high thin cloud, pollutants in the air)
With a telescope you are able to lift your viewing mag because you are collecting more light from the stars and funnelling it to your eyes than your eyes can do on their own. But sooner or later it is going to have an effect, especially when trying to view diffuse deep sky objects like nebula and galaxies which have an intrinsic low surface brightness. A galaxy may be given a mag of say 9 (bright galaxy) but that brightness is spread over the total area of the galaxy. (I think thats right
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So as to locating wonders from Sydney the short answer is yes, but it depends on your sky mag, the magnitude of the object your looking at, how diffuse it is, what your transparency is (and to a certain degree seeing. I've seen seeing so bad over the last few weeks that fairly bright stars are twinkling so much the disappear from view) and the light gathering abilities of you scope.
Hope that helps