Not sure if this is what you're looking for.

When stretching using curves, you HAVE to make sure the top end of the curve is flat line to the top right corner, keep the stars from blowing out.
You could select the brighter stars before hand, feather then inverse, so they aren't affected too much.
Using micro adjustment, you should be able to draw more and more out of the neb without affecting the stars too much.
Compare the brighter stars in the APOD pic to yours, you can continue stretching yours a way yet.