Worm gears are standard solution for a telescope reduction - so do not keep away from them :-)
Steve (Kinetic) even build one himself.. Backlash is not such a big problem, and it can be controlled and compensated for in software
(Bartels again.. I know I am boring, mentioning this guy all the time.. but I cant help it, his software solution is fantastic and low cost approach, perfect for DIY people like you are and it is freeware.. so please consider :-)
Worm gear can be made also by pressing epoxy resin or similar by threaded shaft - Rod did this for his dobson and it works OK (he has this described in this thread here:
http://www.iceinspace.com.au/forum/s...hlight=bartels
My dobson uses 1:12 friction reduction on both axes, driven by 1:240 worm-gear, which is coupled via rubber tube to 200-step motor shaft directly.
This way, all backlash present in worm gears (and this is less than one step) is effectively reduced by 12 (because friction reduction has none), and it is further compensated for in software.. Not an issue at all.
If you are using Bartels software and have no encoders, then clutch is not a good idea because the software doesn't know where the scope is moved if it was done manually.. So in order to have GoTo (or clutch and Push -to) you must have encoders, coupled all the time to both shafts.
Well, with friction reduction (like I have on my dobson) the same applies, because when I am moving the scope tube manually, encoders are still sending information on position to the software, despite the induced slippage in the friction reduction stages.