A 8" refractor isn't really gonna happen, especially if you want something pretty compact. This thing would be HUGE, and require a crazy mount esp for planetary where you wanna get good tracking and stability.
Also realistically, 14" SCT will require a fixed observatory. I am not saying it isn't possible to move by yourself, but it is a challenge and you have to be physically strong.
Another point is that best doesn't mean much. We can talk about best for a price or a given aperture, but best in itself doesn't mean much.
I would recommend getting a quality MAK, maybe 8" - that's pretty beaffy already. Images are very sharp, and thanks to the small obstruction you get a good constrast. In my view, the views are very refractor-like.
Intes is a quality brand you won't be disapointed with.
Good luck!