My first 'real' scope is a 14.5" SDM. That said, I was fully conversant of what I was getting and this was planned for a lonnnnnnnnnnnnnng time.
The collapsible scopes do make transporting much easier and I'm not even sure you can get solid tubes in the 14 to 16" category. (16" in sonotube, but years ago).
Back to your intial concerns:
Collimation - nor hear nor there. Once you learn how, its like riding a bike you don't forget. 2ndly, once you know the basics, its only takes a minute to do each time. So really, it shouldn't be a factor in deciding between a solid vs collapsible. The way I see collimation is like riding a bike witha semi inflated tyres. Wouldn't you rather spend the few mins. to pump up the tyres so you know you'll get a decent ride, as opposed to going for an hour or to, then regretting not pumping it up? Imagine spending 2hrs at night viewing only to later decide to check on collimation and notice you were slightly out and then tweaking it suddenly made a difference?
Dust: When your not using the scope, you will have some form of a cover over the scope or just covering the mirror. A makeshift cover from an appropriate size plastic pot plant lids does the trick. Just make sure it doesn't sit on the actually mirror surface. Therefore dust shouldn't be an issue. During observation you may or may not have a shroud to cover the scope. Will excess dust gather on the scope ? - personally I don't think so. If it does, its not going to be all that different to a solid tube. At the end of the day, dust will form and generally does not impact the viewing quality. Over time (2 years+), you may need to wash the mirror (see threads on how). Again, not a big deal.
If anything, an open truss design scope may allow dew to form a bit quicker on the mirror surface on moist cold nights - a shroud will help to delay this.
At the end of the day, neither of these 2 concerns should be a major issue.
Things you need to consider are:
1. how comfortable are you at carting this size scope around?
2. are you ok with assembling, disassembling after use - especially after a long night.
3. Will you use it more, or will something in the 10-12" be realistically more practical?
4. Try to get out to some observing sessions with others to get an idea and feel of the scope. Photos don't do things justice and it could be a good reality check. (not trying to negative here, just want to ensure you end up with something your happy with).
5. Will you be transporting the scope, is there enough room to fit scope, acessories and family?
It's too easy to go bigger cause everyone goes on about aperture, but when it becomes a chore to lug the thing out, it can put you off the hobby.
Good luck mate with the decision.
Norm
PS: I'm totally happy with the size of scope. But then again it is an SDM