
Hi Tim,
Welcome to IIS.
I am three years into this hobby and I can tell you we all know what you are going through.
The 8SE is some great kit. And I would highly recommend it for quality optics and performance. The GoTo is great and as long as you know where you are and what the time is, that is all you need to know to get the GoTo working on it. There are several setup methods and some further knowledge will probably lead to more accurate tracking, but it is not difficult.
My first scope was a newtonian on an equatorial mount. This would be better for astrophotography, but I soon found it painful for Observational astronomy. The eyepiece and finder can get into some awkward positions, and then there is the task of Polar Aligning.
I soon moved to an SCT (like the SE8) on a SE8 mount and found more comfortable viewing, but it was not great for photography, mainly because they mount move in Alt/Az (up and down, and side to side) instead of equatorial (following natural movement of the planet around the poles). Although some good results have been achieved by some with this sort of setup.
Goto is great, and you could definitely have difficulty in finding some faint fuzzies without it. Also, if used correctly, you can use it to help you learn the constellations. Admitedly, I am still working on this aspect.
After all this, I must however, recommend what my friends previously have stated. Find you nearest group of observers and arrange to go and look. We are very friendly and welcoming and generally knowledgable.
If you can't find something close in Sydney, come to our Central Coast observing group at the Mangrove Mountain Pony Club. We have a good variety of scopes and a lot of knowledge to share. We have people from Sydney regularly coming up. I would reckon it will be an hours travel well worth taking. Watch the star party forum for details.
Better still, come to IISAC next month (even if only for one or two nights).
I currently have a Celestron CPC1100 (big brother of the SE8 with fork arm mount instead of single arm) and a Celestron SE4 for a more portable grab and Go. I have had three Newtonians, two previous Maks, a C9.25 SCT. I have had equatorial mounts, push to mounts, alt az mounts, and full GPS goto. Yet to experience the joys of a DOB, though this is apparently the scope of recommendation for beginners, for ease of use and big optics bang for buck.
Hope to see you at a observing site soon.