My LX200 shows similar traits in that if I use the main focuser to move the mirror, the diffraction pattern will always be slightly different inside and outside of focus which is why I don't use it to collimate the scope. When I get coarse focus using the mirror adjustment I simply lock the mirror and use the crayford to tweak the collimation. The diffraction patterns remain the same both sides of focus when the mirror is locked. A moving primary is great as it offers a large range of adjustment but the offside to this is the problem with collimating the thing, there is just too much slop in the mechanism. It is normal to see a difference if you move the mirror. If you use the mirror adjustment it is best to collimate from the inside diffraction pattern as this gives better results. You may also like to try a crayford focuser which can be purchased fairly cheaply depending on brand. I have a moonlite on mine which is fabulous but expensive compared to some. I also recently fitted a feathertouch 10:1 focuser to the coarse mirror focus and this has improved things even more. They are cheap to buy and I got mine from OPT.
http://www.optcorp.com/ProductList.a...d=105-175-1041
I would resist the urge to tape the mirror as it is something that would be very difficult to undo. The best way to tell if the mirror has a turned edge is to use a ronchi which will tell you straight away.
Mark