Given the weight of your setup Peter, whilst its expensive, I would strongly recommend getting the ADM 'EQ-G SAD' which converts the EQ6 to Losmandy D-Plates. The losmandy plates are 4" wide, and solid as a rock.
It will cost you a lot of money though, you'd need the saddle, D plate for each of your scopes and a D side by side plate.. Otherwise you could go for a D plate with a D and a V saddle, put a D plate on your two imaging scopes and a V plate on your guider to save a little bit of money..
That is -The- way to rule out dovetails as part of your flex problems...
Now, onto the major topic on my mind... Great image! I didnt think the crescent nebula was even possible from our neck of the woods.. Fantastic. I hope to have a go at this one some time..
Top effort.