I recommend that you spend a night or two on a chair with a red light and star chart
and no telescope and just LOOK at the night sky with your eyes and try and trace out the constellations, navigate your way around from the planisphere/chart and become familiar with what you are seeing.
Unless you spend a bit of time knowing what bright star belongs to what constellation, trying to "star hop" using a guide or a book, is pretty much useless which is why you might be struggling.
Add to that, if you are not familiar with the brighter stars and shapes of the constellations,
YOU WILL BE HOPELESSLY LOST when you get to a dark sky site and see MILLIONS more stars and you will say to yourself; "what? were did all those stars come from?" and you will have a BUGGER of a time trying to star hop then.
I found this out EVEN after i spent a few nights looking from my backyard. When I drove 60kms out of Sydney up to Linden in the Blue Mountains, the first thing I said when I got out of the car and looked up was "WOW, whats that big cloud up there, and the club members there said "The Milky Way, dummy""
There were SO many stars visible, I could barely find the constellations as they looked so different, usually I lined my scope up manually on the South Celestial Pole and couldnt because there were too many stars visible in the finderscope and I didnt know what I was looking at.
So......what all this boils down to is
familiarity. Spend some time just looking up and making the sky your friend, talk to yourself (lots of us do it) and discuss with your charts what you are looking at and then when you want to find something like a "smudge" or a little cloud with your scope thats just near a big star or cluster of them, you will know what neighbourhood to look in first.
Whew, started out a small comment, grew to an essay, sorry, that happens with me sometimes..
Cheers
Chris