Thank you Steven for such a well considered reply.
I accept the ball and the blanket is an example of a visual aid but I need to know if my view is correct.. simply it means I have some sort of grip on the concept .. i say that the example if to be correct would be more representative of the situation if the ball were under the blanket such that it were stretched toward the ball..
I guess what I suggest is that the grid can only bend toward an object.. such that the squares of the grid become "smaller" and I associate smaller squares with increased gravity...and in an effort to bend we get out arcs.. that is obvious I guess...I dont know what smaller squares suggest other than time must be the thing that does it... I dont know if I am the right track but I imagine that space is compacted the closer it is to matter.
Sorry I am so bewildered by all this I have difficulty in accepting anything I can not explain to myself with absolute confidence...and with all this I am not confident that I understand it...as I said all I see is geometry ..I read someplace that one could think of it as a pythagorean therom with an addition of a negative time line...now just because I read it takes me little further than visualising a grid that has curves which represent variations in gravity.
I simply hope the concepts are not so abstract that I am unable to visualise for the purpose of my limited understanding but maybe if I keep at it I will achieve a better understanding.
But so far I see general relativity as a geometry to describe space time...and I at this point think that space time has been derived from the principle of equivelence..(I know there is more to it and there are many contributions of others before Dr A but it seems to me that acceleration has been related to the effect of gravity... I guess that is where T got involved ...however I feel there is something fundamentally wrong about the approach as we use a human experience to describe something more complex than such approach admits... but not being absolutely at ease with the subject I can only speculate and grasp at thread I see bear...
Now I am not saying Dr A is wrong by any means and please dont think that of me..he is one of my heros, my main one really..he seemed like a very decent man one whos manners one would be happy to emulate...in fact the reason I got into the gravity push thing was my belief that Dr A had something similar in mind when he put forward the cosmological constant... he seemed to give up on that idea when Hubble presented his observations and belief that the Universe was expanding... I think he was on the right track so I have developed an unhealthy pursuit of giving weight in my mind to his concept of an overall pushing force.
Anyways thanks again for helping me..I will think about all you have said.
I do read heaps but I dont feel I have a grip on all of it...it cant be as simple as I believe or as complex as many seem to present it..not you Steven your writtings are enjoyable and free flowing and I do appreciate that.
alex

