Been programming PIC's for something like 15 years, but sorry, I don't have the time to do this.
If however you are unable to find someone to help and decide to do it yourself, learning to program PIC's(or any micro) is not as simple as it would seem as there are lots of undocumented 'Gotyas' and it's not simply a matter of programming as you need a pretty good understanding of electronics too.
I'm still learning!
So, I recommend a PICAXE controller.
While it's still a PIC, they are slightly different in that they are preprogrammed with an interpreter, they are then easily programmed with flowcharts or a BASIC like language, even reasonably complex tasks(yours
appears to be fairly simple) can be done with just a few lines of code.
The PICAXE's are so easy to use that they are used by students in primary and secondary schools all over the world.
Almost all of the Silicon Chip projects that use a micro, use a PICAXE.
They are also powerful enough to be used in serious apps... you know the Holden Efijy concept car?.... Yep!
There's probably a hundred places you can buy them in Australia, shop around. There's a massive amount of information about them so Google is your friend.
The homepage is:
www.picaxe.co.uk
No affiliation etc etc.... infact, I've only ever used a PICAXE once because they do have limitations.