Hi shaneaust,
Sorry to hear you've been having problems with collimation
Glad to hear you got it sorted in the end
You've probably seen this but there is a great instructional video here
http://www.andysshotglass.com/Collimating.html
As Darryl said, collimation knobs (Bob's Knobs from Bintel) help a lot. I got the primary and secondary knobs and the stiffer springs. These let you collimate without tools. The stiffer springs prevent the collimation from shifting as you change the altitude of the scope.
Have fun,
Doug