Hi Mick.
Just a newb at autoguiding, but FWIW.
Software I'm using K3CCDTOOLS V2, once you get over its little idiosyncrasies its fairly easy, but I found it a frustrating learning curve to start with. Much thanks to Robby for assisting me there.
The only guidescope I've used, is my 102 celestron and that was for piggybacking my 300D. Straight forward enough. Though I did find that guidestar selection played a big part in my success. I now tend to select a moderately bright star (I'm using a ToUcam for my star capture) if possible, keep the brightness up to full and drop the gain to zero. I then start dropping the brightness until the star is still easily visible onscreen but not showing any flaring. For me I found that was the most important aspect, to get as still a stellar image as possible. Once I got that and as long as I didn't walk anywhere around the tripod the guiding graph kept as nice and smooth with only the occasional bump. the same technique works with OAG as well but its much more difficult go find a guidestar without moving away from the object I'm trying to image.
Hopefully in the next week or so I will have my new guidescope plus a set of guiding rings. mainly give me a larger choice in guide star selection. There is a product call the Tau Ceti X-Y finder, that will allow you to use normal mounting rings for the guidescope. I've not tried it or seen it in action but a number of people have mentioned it to me as a very good alternative to guiding rings.
http://www.sciencecenter.net/hutech/gd-acc/xyfinder/ Looks interesting but isn't a good cost comparison with guide rings.
the only other thing I'm using is StarMate as interface between laptop and Losmandy drive system.
Everything I have going ATM works like a charm and I'm expecting big improvements once I get all my ordered gear.
FWIW