Thanks for the help people.
ok to answer the question of what interests me, (viewing DSO's, viewing planets, or photography). well the true answer is, everything.
But the answer that actually means something is, I am absolutely gobsmacked with DSO's. Following is a rundown of a typical night of viewing for me.
Ok I always look at venus first. obviously because its theonly thing to see soon after the sun dissapears.
Then have a look at saturn.
I look at omega century, (only seen it 4000 times now but it still amazes me). occasionally the seeing (as you people call it) allows me to see much more than I had previously. This is very exiting for a newby like myself.
I look at the jewel box, which is exceptional. always stunning.
I then move onto the double star (really a triple) of the left hand pointer. In my scope this is probably the best binary viewing I have found so far. (although I am working through Vings Seeing double posts, so I may find better).
While I am in the area I always look for NGC5128 (the hamburger galaxy). Have a lot of fun trying to see this galaxy, and although I am not sure one night when the seeing was very sharp, I swear that with overted vision I could see a slight glo ( no detail but its a start).
I then proceed to jupiter. Which for me is directly overhead. painful ep position but generally ok views. Very occasionally i actually see some detail, and always like to see which positions the four moons are in.
I then move to Scorpoi, and look at some of the open clusters like m7, m6 and others. Had a look at m8 and m20 (Sagitarious), not sure exactly which i found but was fantastic.
I've looked down around where eta carinae is and found some form of neb, not sure which one because there is a few in that area, but thats part of the fun. Also found a star cluster that reminds me of the jewel box. Did look it up and found what is was called but cannot remember now.
Igot up early morning (3am) a few times to view certain things because I knew they would be around then. eg.Sword of orion, pleiades, the SMC and LMC are too low on the horizon for me to see earlier. Had a good look at 47 tuc and also found some neb not far away in the SMC, but have failed to locate what it is called. Anyway the viewing so far has been fantastic. Can't wait to see what its going to be like through a 12" scope. M42 is fantastic, as is the pleiades.
Then after I have viewed the things I know and can quickly locate, and enjoy, I generally look for something new that I haven't seen. I have found out when andromeda rises, so have planned to have an early morning again soon to view it. At the moment though there is a huge big bright ball in the sky that seems to drown everything out lol.
Oh and of coarse I have looked extensively at the moon.
So I guess the short answer is, I like DSO's most. As for photography, I have no plans really to get into it, I don't think I have the patients to take hunreds of photo's to combine into one image. I much prefer looking around and seeing.
Thanks again for your advise Dennis, Tempest, and Blue Skies. I guess the outcome of all this is that I need to buy 4 scopes. One huge one to build a million dollar observatory out in my horse paddock, one that I can leave set up ( I already have this one) and steal 10 minutes here and there. one medium size one to pack up and take to darker sky sites and star parties. and one that i can let other people look through so that i don't get called a telescope hog.

Hmmmmm. wonder what the chief loan officer (my lovely lady) would say to all this?????