If you use the same camera in both situations then the aperture doesn't actually determine your exposure time, your F/Ratio does. For instance, a 10mm lens at F/5 means that you have a 2mm aperture, 10mm focal length. If you have a 90mm lens at F/5 you 18mm aperture and 90mm focal length.
What the focal ratio does is determine the amount of aperture at a given focal length and in turn the is the number of photons hitting each pixel. If the F/Ratio remains at F/5, as you increase your aperture or focal length, your 30s exposure time would remain constant but what would change is your resolution.
The reason why we are photographers tend to use 60-3600s individual exposures is that we're trying to get the sky background about the read noise of the camera. To give an example:
If you were to shoot with a standard 50mm lens at F/4 under dark skies you're probably looking at 120s exposures being your optimum time. At F/1.4 (VERY wide open) the sky background will be as bright at 15s as 120s at F/4. At F/9 you would require 600s to get the same background brightness. If you were to shoot with a 300mm at F/4 you would still need 120s to get the same background brightness or 600s at F/9 or 15s at F/1.4 (never seen a 300mm F/1.4 though).
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