Hi Tim,
I actually use my DBK21AU618.AS planetary webcam on my 50mm Orion finder/guider scope for just this purpose.
As soon as I plonk down the HEQ5 and set the tube to SCP (using the marks on the concrete), I connect the DBK and the Atik CCD to the PC and fire up the capture programs as well as Stellarium Scope and connect it to the mount using EQMod through the hand controller (set to PC direct).
When Stellarium starts, I get the "Telescope" cross hair sitting on the SCP and then I click on say, Sirius or Canopus and the scope slews off to where it thinks it is, which I monitor on the Webcam capture program.
As the Orion finder guider is an F3 (ish) 50mm widefield, I can normally capture the star I have slewed to on the screen in the field (or can see where it went when it slewed past) and then I jog it back to the centre of the screen and take some test shots with the CCD to make sure its in the centre of the FOV.
Some slight adjustments of the guidescope to make sure its centred with the main scope and then I SYNC the mount and Stellarium by using the CTRL-3 sync command and the "Scope" icon moves to the star I am on.
From then on, all I have to do is point and click the object I want and then hit CTRL-1 and off the scope goes, to the next object. By monitoring on the Webcam display, I can see, even with a 2-3 second exposure, the DSO I am looking for when the scope stops.
Fine tuning with the EQMOD arrows then allows me to frame the object, do some test shots with the CCD to make sure I am happy with how it sits and then I simply fire up the guiding and start the image capture sequence.
This way I DONT have to do any initial alignment on the hand controller, I simply fire up the mount, set the date, time etc, then just put it in Sidereal tracking mode and then PC - Direct mode, sit back and control the whole lot from the chair without even LOOKING through a piece of glass.
Have I said too much?
Cheers
Chris