Hi John
I am also brand new to this whole stargazing enterprise. And, again like you, have prowled the forums and found some very interesting posts. In the process I have learnt something of the basics.
I respond however as I too am looking at Celestron Nexstar for much the same reasons - I am drawn to deep space (1).
However, my problem is that I live at Maryborough in Queensland and as anyone from up this way knows - moisture is a big problem. My nearest neightbour is 5 k away and there is no traffic as I live beside a river near its mouth and where full moon creates so much light that one needs dark glasses to go about at night.
But the humidity at this time of year is a killer. Mould is an ever present problem (2).
Thus, any telescope I might consider has to be fully enclosed and compact enough to be placed in a warming box to stop any crows feet growing.
Personally, I'm looking at the 5/6SE
The Celestron range seems to satisfy both these requirements (1) & (2).
As others have suggested, size does matter. I would love to go bigger but the budget does not stretch that far.
I have not made any decision and probably won't for some time as I check out other telescopes and speak to those who have more knowledge on such matters.