How useful a telrad is to you will depend largely on how dark the sky is where you normally use your scope. Do you see a LOT of stars with the naked eye from your backyard? If you cant see many, then a telrad wont help that much. Having said that, I wouldnt be without my rigel
A good quality barlow is money well spent, imo you dont want to skimp on this as with planetary viewing contrast is everything!
I find the shorty plus barlow, with an eyepiece of around 12-14mm gives me the perfect magnification for viewing the planets.
As for the cheapy widefield eyepieces, my advice would be to buy one and see how good it really is at f5 before shelling out for the whole set.
Did you get that cheshire collimator? I would put that at #1, the barlow at #2 telrad #3.
P.S. I have a Celestron Ultima 12.5mm thats surplus to my needs after buying the pentax xl's. I paid $240 for it last year from york Optical and if interested you can have it for $150.
p.p.s. Whats this sites policy on advertising items for sale?