Yes, Barry is quite correct.
I used friction drive on my 10" F5.6 dobson (with
Bartels software), I tried photography (30 sec) and found no issues re PE (the potential problem was field rotation, and expecting that, I aimed at objects near equator / meridian intersection (where the field rotation is minimal).
See here for mechanical details.
SoundStepper is an adequate replacement for Bartels software (which runs on DOS and w97 in cmd mode only), it has some limitations (no provisions yet for mechanical imperfections like non-orthogonality of mount shafts, no encoders interface) but those are not really significant, as they are important only for high precision GoTo.
Electronics for SoundStepper you must build yourself.. I would recommend to you
this approach, as discussed in thread..
Steppers are not critical, try ebay (NEMA17, 200 or 400s/rev.. for Allegro driver 4-10 ohms, bipolar perform better than higher resistance - higher voltage types.. again, for details have a look at the abovementioned thread)
Ratios.. well you have to calculate/measure them yourself.
I would recommend ~1:12 or more for main shaft, as this reduces the PE generated in previous steps by factor of 12 (provided wheels are concentric). You will have to measure the actual ratio yourself, as it will not be exactly the desired number (due to tolerances of the turning machine, and to some extend it will depend on applied pressure, due to material elasticity)
The rest may be optional - additional 1:4 ~ 1:8, in combination with microstepping (16 if Allegro drivers are used) should be adequate.
Material used for friction drive components should be brass (or steel) for wheels, steel for driver shafts