AP is Astro photography where things become extremely sensitive to collimation issues.
I wouldn't be too worried about not seeing the mirror clips on your dob as long as its not along way from the FOV then your only chasing a small area of illumination.
When i used the cheshire on my newt back when it was still in a un adulterated state I was never able to see all the mirror clips at once! Even now i have issues seeing the mirror clip surrounds but thats a whole different issue and configuration
As long as you have the secondary centered within your focuser, and the dots line up with your cheshire that will be fine enough for what you want to do. A laser collimator wont do it any better and perhaps possibly worse and the next step up would be a barlow laser setup or auto collimators for higher accuracy.