I'll be a kill-joy and NOT recommend a Mak as your first scope.
While they give outstanding Lunar and Planetary views, they also have a very narrow field of view (FoV) and can be difficult to collimate because of the long focal lengths. They are also very susceptible to poor seeing (turbulence in the atmosphere) and can take a while (up to 2hrs!) to cool down to the point of being usable.
Having said that I love mine!
Try as I might, I can't think of a better all-rounder than an 8" Newt on an Alt-Az mount. An 8" is large enough to show you fantastic lunar & planetary deatil and give inspiring if not spectacular views of most Deep Sky Objects and star-fields.
It's also small and light enough to be easily portable.
An Alt / Az mount like a Voyager, Sky-Tee, or EZ-Touch is simplicity itself and equally easy to carry around.
You can spend hours star-hopping with this set-up and even spy on your neighbours with ease. There are also 'go-to' versions available at a higher price.
You
could invest in a go-to dobsonian like Skywatcher or Orion, but they tend to be a bit pricey. However for 10"+ aperture, they are indeed the business.
'Regular" dobsonians in the 6-8" range offer no advantages over a Alt/Az mounted newt and larger one's are a hassle to move and (I find) are quite fiddly to use owing to their length and weight (others WILL disagree).
I wouldn't bother with an equatorial mount unless you are planning on doing a lot of astro-photography or want to track objects throughout the night (perfectly good reasons, I might add).
As to eyepieces - use what comes with the scope by all means and then get a cheapo zoom - say 7/8mm-21/24mm and a couple of cheap eyepieces in the 30-40mm range.
This way you can get a good idea of at what lengths you like to view and you can extrapolate wider angles.
A few weeks down the line, you can start spending your Super on Naglers, Panoptics and Pentaxes!
Hope some of this is useful.
Enjoy!
Peter