Hi Pat.
You haven't stated what you want to look at.
Objects: Planets, Moon, Galaxies?
Also, to help determine size is
Location: Are you likely to observe in light pollution or will you be traveling to dark sky sites?
If you are going to be observing at a very dark site then you will be surprised at what an 8" dob can see.
Obviously the 12" will see objects a bit brighter, but with experimentation at our dark sky clubsite there isn't a
'fantastic' difference between the 8" and the 12".
In the city and brightly lit suburbs is a different story. Aperture rules! The 12" will see objects the 8" can't see at all.
Also, for Lunar and Planetary it won't matter too much. A 6" will be fine.
But faint Nebulae and Galaxies need the larger aperture to suck in as much light as possible.
12" in cities, 8" or 12" in dark skies.
Focal Ratio makes a difference too.
I think the 8" is still available in f5 and f6. The 12" is f5.
An f5 will show faint nebulae and galaxies slightly brighter than an f6.
Yes, I agree that the supplied eyepieces are fairly good.
Stepping up to better eyepiece will be a matter of trial and testing of different eyepieces over time and finding what you like.
The variety is HUGE!
Something that may be left till later.
Hope that helps