If I had $10,000 odd dollars, I'd choose the refractor.

OK. Granted there are a few 6" Achromats that will cost you 1/5 of that but their views will still be inferior to an 8" Newt/Dob of decent quality.
Figuring a lens or three is considerably more difficult (and expensive) than figuring a mirror. Cheap, large aperture refractors almost invariably suffer one or both of chromatic abberation (fringing around bright objects), or spherical abberation (distorted objects), plus one or two other nasties. The shorter the focal length, the more pronounced are the errors. I recently had a chance to view through one of the better rated ones, a 152mm f6.5 sold under various brand names and it was truly abysmal!
An 8" quality reflector is an excellent choice. Mirrored scopes are inherently colour-free, and while they still need to be corrected for S.A. it is much simpler to get a 'diffraction limited' mirror.
Asian mirrors have become very good and even excellent over the last 10 years and I think you would get much more satisfaction out of an 8" GSO or Skwatcher than you would a crappy refactor.