Hey, Zero, good luck with furthering the "conversion" of your mate,

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I'd carefully consider makeing a mask for your scope to tone down bright objects. I used to think that a mask was also the way to go, not any more.
If you think about it, the reason for NOT masking is within your very post. You compared the images given by both scopes, and yourself say that the 10" killed the 4.5". Why? APETURE!
Masking will, yes, reduce brightness, but it will also kill the resolving power of the scope, which is what gave you such a good image.
I thought filters where, well, bull. Not any more. Filters will tone down the brightness, but the resolving power will STILL be there.
There is a thread on the better filters for this purpose in the 'Eyepieces and Filters' forum. I've made my arguement on my choice. Others offered their arguements too, good ones too. I'd suggest reading that thread and deciding which way to go:
http://www.iceinspace.com.au/forum/s...ad.php?t=66928
I've used my polarising filters to tone down the Moon when photographing the partial lunar eclipse earlier this year using my 5" scope and webcam (which I made following the instructions in the Projects and Articles section,

). Had too, damn thing was so bright. A mask would have killed the resolution of the pics.
Mental.