Go for the 10". My second scope was a 10" dob and I just loved it. I still wish I hadn't sold it 20 years ago
If the 10" you're interested in has a short focal length, you might want to take a good look through it at night if at all possible. As far as I'm aware, shorter f/l mirrors need to be figured much more accurately. It would be good to be sure that the mirror has been figured well enough to satisfy you, and looking though the scope at night is a good way to find out.
Check the primary mirror cell as well. Some mirrors are glued onto the mirror cell, and the cell is sometimes made of custom wood rather than being alloy etc. If possible, the mirror cell is better to have mirror clips etc rather than having a mirror glued to it (which can cause the mirror to flex).
Some tubes are made from a sort of cardboard too (the old shorty Orion 10" scopes were made from sonotube I think). Try to get one with a rolled metal tube rather than sonotube etc.
Check the bearings on the mount and tube as well to make sure that they run well and don't stick. Bearings can always be tuned / buffed etc, but it's better to star off with a good setup if you can.
I guess that there are a lot of things to keep an eye out for, however I'm sure that you'll make a great decision and that a 10" scope will make your eyes pop! Buying a new telescope is always exciting!
Dean