I just ordered a new Milburn "delux" model wedge for my 12 inch.
The delux version is 1 inch thick compared to 3/4 for the standard Milburn and very solid apparantly. It should be here to me in a week or so.
The Meade ultra wedge is apparantly far superior to the Meade super wedge as they were brought out for the RCX line of scopes.
The Milburn and Mitty wedges are supposed to be alot better again compared to the Meade ultra.
I went with Milburn, based on many excellent reviews and it worked out for the delux 1 inch thick version which is black anodised as well $50 less shipped to me in Brisbane than than the Meade ultra wedge, so not a real difficult decision for me. The delux version was brought out for the larger 12 and 14 inch scopes but the standard milburn is supposed to be very good so the delux can only be better.
This is my first wedge so I can't comment on user experience only from what I have found out on various astro forums.
Also service and response from Ken Milburn has been very proffesional, got to love the high Aussie dollar ATM

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Regards Matt.