Hi, I have the same set up as you and here is what I do.
Well kind of the same set up. I use my dsi2 for guiding and a dslr for taking the pictures.
First off, go here and down the eq mod driver.
http://eq-mod.sourceforge.net/
If you dont already have one you'll need to get a usb to serial convertor . they are much ceaper than the shoe string adaptors but they do require the synscan controller. if your laptop already had a serialport on it then your set.
With the mount you should have gotten a serial to rj12 connector lead. the rj12 looks like the end of a telephone cable. the rj12 connector plugs into the synscan control box and the serial into the pc. If you go into utilities on the synscan and select PC DIRECT MODE you scope should be ready to talk to the pc.
Next open PHD, and click on the camera tab and select the dsi. It should show as connected on the bottom of the screen under the buttons.
Next click on the telescope button, and select eqmod from the list, a box will apear click on properties and set the baud rate to 9600 and enter the port number of the serial device that you are using. click ok and eqmod should start talking to you mount. You may need to down load the lastest anscom driver from thier site before you install eqmod, not sure about that one.
hope that helps
sandy