Hey Rayman 888,
I'd first suggest making your mind up if you want an EQ mount or a bigger scope on a dob. Personally the EQ mount suits me better as I can walk inside etc and still come back to find the object. However, I'm starting to feel that a big dob would just be just awesome full stop.
Now rest assured, only a small time with your new scope, and you WILL get aperture fever btw! I was warned and they weren't joking
As for the mounts, I don't believe you'd want to put anything heavier on an EQ5 than an 8" Newt. I'm not quite sure about these new mounts from Andrews but they look like the smaller EQ4's or even EQ3. Check this! My EQ5 required a full dis-assembly, hours of deburring and re-greasing but with fantastically smooth results. An EQ4 or smaller might struggle.
The difference between a good eyepiece and those GSO's is crazy! Save the $100 and put this towards at least half the cost of a decent EP. Vixen LVW's are my fav right now, highly recommend! Second hand Televue plossls would be my cheap recommendation (<$100).