Benny,
There are plenty of online resources to assist you in taking flats - even one here on IIS -
http://www.iceinspace.com.au/index.p...63,211,0,0,1,0
In relation to the minimum filter, I'm assuming you're familiar with the colour range tool as you'll need to use this for star selection. There are other advanced methods for star selection, but the colour range tool does a fair job.
Once you've got only the stars selected and have feathered the selection (say by 2 pixels), apply the minimum filter - Filter | Other | Minimum. Typically 1 pixel is sufficient. This will also bring back the star colours and reduce bloating. Make sure you feather! Feathering applies to just about all PS selection functions in astro image processing. Failing to feather results in abrupt/harsh results.
You should also take more than one subs and dither between them. This will get rid of the two column defects present in IC434. I find it intriguing how you came to the exposure time ratio of R:900;G:600;B:650. Was this calculation based a G2V star and if so what filters are you using?