Like you I have a 12"LB. In pure light gathering terms the jump in aperture is a desirable feature. Aperture fever does take hold though, How much aperture is enough?
Onto the practicalities, the 16" gives 77% more light than the 12" but the 16" weighs approx 65kg, the 12" 38kg.
The 16" is also physically bigger and for the average person you will need a step ladder for the e/p when approaching the zenith.
The last thing is price: 16"= $2995, 12"= $1499.
You could buy two 12"'s for the price of the 16" or buy a hell of a lot of accessories.
Choices, Choices, Choices........................:lol :
P.S. But.......don't forget 12"'s is still a lot of aperture!!!!