It is such a difficult target to verify
For those trying similar adventures, it's worth trying the following:
A) Image Canopus. It's another very bright star and it may show up lens reflections and dust motes (I got caught by that the first time!)
B) Calculate the image scale exactly then measure the separation. A little trick with eyepiece projection, but here is a tool to get the approximate focal length:
http://starizona.com/acb/ccd/advequipplanet.aspx then apply (Pixel Size * 206) / Focal Length to get the arc secs per pixel.
C) Verify the PA of the star by switching the guide motors off and watching the direction of drift. Conveniently, Sirius B is directly behind at the moment! As per images from 2008 using 20" dob and 5000mm focal length.
D) keep at it!
Well done Barry